For those who are separated or divorced, a “Happy Holidays!” or “Merry Christmas!” greeting can carry a hollow ring. In fact, if you are one of those trying to navigate the quagmire of relationships, feelings, and decisions in the season ahead while your marriage is falling apart, the words will likely bring feelings of dread—maybe even fear. Will I be with my children on Christmas? What will my...
One of my personal pet peeves is when other people treat me like I’m a child. If I get talked down to like I’m ignorant or incapable, it usually triggers me in a way that provokes an ungodly response in my heart, words, and even actions. This phenomenon can be more real than ever when we go to our parents’ place for the holiday season. Something about being back in your childhood home can...
After a long year, many of us are looking forward to Advent, a time of renewed hope and joy and reflection on our Savior’s love for us. Of course, a favorite feature of this season will be the singing of Advent and Christmas carols. Few capture the meaning of Christ’s incarnation more than the hymn, Thou Who Wast Rich Beyond All Splendor, based on 2 Corinthians 8:9: Thou who wast rich beyond all...
This kind of thing has happened many times in my life. I show up at a simple gathering among friends. Out of the blue, one of the friends says, “I saw this in a store the other day and thought you’d like it. Here!” Never have I had a gift to give in return. So I say what most of us say, “Oh, no, I can’t accept this. It’s too much! . . . But I don’t have anything for you.” And then I scramble to...
With COVID on the decline in most places, this year’s holiday season is poised to be a return to “normal.” Families will gather together again and churches will meet to give thanks to God and to celebrate the birth of our Savior. But for many people, “normal” can include sadness and even depression around the holidays. Why is this the case? Some people suffer from the physiological disorder known...
