Not long ago, several biblical counseling students who had been under my supervision asked my thoughts on common themes, threads, and patterns I detected as a counseling supervisor. They were specific: “We’re not asking about all the ‘good stuff’ we do as biblical counselors. We’re interested in the consistent areas where you sense a need for growth.” Because it’s a passion of mine to encourage...
A middle-aged veteran was hurt, reeling from war memories, and always teetering on poverty. These were very important matters. He was also angry. Every five minutes or so he would mention how he wanted to rip someone’s head off, and he looked like he might do it. “You seem really angry,” I suggested, stating the obvious. “Whaddya mean?! Don’t be so STUPID!” He did not say anything about ripping...
Overwork can be a temptation for me. Sometimes I overwork because I enjoy what I do. When meaningful opportunities arise, it’s hard to say no. Other times, I see unmet needs and desire to help, so I say yes to new commitments even when it feels like too much. On still other occasions, I pile on projects because work distracts me from my problems and makes me feel useful and productive...
Parents often feel at a loss with popular culture and how it fits in with their family life. They want to guide their children well, but it can be overwhelming to navigate the murky waters of television, movies, games, and more that their kids are exposed to every day. Popular culture doesn’t have to be a burden and shouldn’t be feared. In The Pop Culture Parent: Helping Kids Engage Their World...
Hard times are part of the human condition. They come in various forms, degrees, and life stages to both the innocent and the guilty. Some struggles originate from false beliefs, misguided choices, or selfish behaviors, and others seem arbitrary. But none of our troubles surprise God. In John 16:33 Jesus warned his followers, “In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have...
