Thanksgiving is here—the holiday that is billed as the time for each of us to stop and give thanks. But is that really always possible? We are in the middle of a pandemic and are living in a polarized world with deep political and racial divisions. And those are just our public problems. We also each have our private list of things that are making life hard. Our family, like many others, notices...
For my family, the days leading up to Thanksgiving have always been full of hard work and anticipation of the holiday. We roast chestnuts for the turkey stuffing, bake rolls from scratch, and make my grandmother’s to-die-for cranberry relish. And of course, on Thanksgiving Day, we share in fellowship and fun with family and friends. Perhaps you have similar traditions and expectations of...
“What do you say?” As grandparents, we may find ourselves often prompting our young grandchildren to say those two little words— “Thank you.” Perhaps you’ve taken them out to lunch and you’ve encouraged them to express appreciation to the server. Maybe you’re keeping them for the afternoon and a younger sibling decides to be generous and share the toys without argument. Whenever someone expresses...
It’s not only children who want more than anything to “fit in” and be liked by the cool crowd; it’s all of us. The Bible calls peer pressure “fear of man,” and we all struggle with it. Each of us has, at different times, given the people around us more power than God intended them to have. We all have people in our lives whose opinions mean more to us than they should or who have the power to...
We face so many challenges when we speak—sometimes it feels almost impossible to use words correctly and it’s easy to give up and either keep quiet or just to blast away. There are many issues that divide people today: abortion, evolution, social justice matters, and same-sex marriage. When we venture into conversations and, dare I say debates, on such topics, we must do so in a way that honors...
