The self-care trend Self-care is defined in the Oxford Language Dictionary as “the practice of taking an active role in protecting one’s own well-being and happiness, in particular during periods of stress.” Self-care is not a word you are going to find in the Bible. This may be one reason why some Christians pause when they hear it. They may wonder if self-care is a concept in...
As followers of Christ, we are called to care for the weak, vulnerable, and hurting. Children who experience trauma are, sadly, a prime example of this. They are a sobering reminder of the reality that things in the world are not as they should be. Too often children have been passed off as a nuisance and a burden, something to be “seen and not heard.” But the Bible shows us that a child is...
Most of us remember a time when a friend came alongside us and said just the right thing, listened with compassion, or cared enough to bring us some needed correction. At the same time, most of us would admit we sometimes feel ill equipped to know what to say or do when a friend is struggling emotionally or spiritually. The question really isn’t whether we will be called to help a friend in...
Aaron became an elder in a church where I was the lead pastor. He was intelligent, knowledgeable of the Bible, a good husband and father, a good Bible teacher, and he discipled others. By all qualifications, he was a model elder. I was excited to have someone so capable to serve alongside in our growing church. I needed his strong leadership. As soon as the church installed him as an elder, his...
As a biblical counselor, one of my passions is to point my counselees to helpful biblical resources related to their struggles. Long after our one-on-one conversations are over, I want them to have tools in their hands for continued growth. An issue carries special urgency for me if I can’t find much written about the particular topic. More than once this lack of resources has motivated me to...
